EVERY family has a time every hour 60 minutes, 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. We can get a successful family is able to realize its objectives in the time available. But we can also see other families who precisely as if being chased by time, can not live quietly, unable to realize its goals, and can not enjoy life. Inevitably, the family could not solemn worship.

The difference between the two families is truly the first family fully understand the urgency of time; know how memenejnya, whereas the second family became the first family antitheses. Prophet said, "There are two blessings which many people neglected; health and free time."

Who uses health and spare time in obedience to Allah and His Messenger, then he is a happy man. However, those who use them to engage in immoral acts to Allah and His Messenger, then he is a miserable person. This remember, is the opposite of ill health, and leisure time opponent of the busy


Who uses health and spare time in obedience to Allah and His Messenger, then he is a happy man ...


Westerners say that time is money, while Al-Hasan said, "I found some people that one of them is very stingy against the old than the coin." He knows that if the age disappeared, then he will disappear. While the treasure, if one day disappear, then at other times can be obtained again.

From here we can see that time does not equal value for money, he is more valuable from it. As stated Abdullah bin Mas'ud, "I never regret for something more than regret for the day when the sun sets, the more my end is reduced, while amalku not increased."

Thus, time management is a skill. So - as a mother and wife you have to train and educate children to be able to manage their time. The reason is, if we are a family with typical family of two in the example above, then we constantly try to change the time that has gone, do good in the wrong way, eating, drinking, driving, and others with a hasty and reckless. No doubt, worship was not optimal, resulting in negative impact on family life.

Who uses health and spare time to engage in immoral acts to Allah and His Messenger, then he is a miserable person ...


Then arises the question: how can memenej time effectively? What is the meaning of time management? From the literature that there are states that time management is the ways and means of helping people to realize its goals, achieve stability between obligations, desires, and goals. Time management experts agree that every time we successfully manage time well, then we will be more productive.

Definition of time management is not just reserved for adults only. Small children can use it and trained to get accustomed to effective time management. To train the children are familiar with time management, so parents should monitor its effectiveness in the activity.

How Long Time Do You Need?

How long do you need to do various daily activities? It's a question you must answer before starting to realize time management. All you have to do is write all your daily activities during the week with a record time you need in doing various activities. It is better if prepared in the form of charts:

1. Look at the chart that is in front of you, look for activities that are a lot of time to swallow, but the benefit is simple. It is like sitting for hours in front of the television, talking on the phone for a long time, tidying children's toys scattered about, and so forth.
2. Give priority to jobs that are categorized as primary needs, such as prayer, worship, health care, repairing dangerous things, pay bills, and perform other tasks.
3. Then in the next rankings are matters relating to the future of the family, such as the time that you live with your family, your time to guide children's learning, and time to develop your capabilities.
4. In the next rankings are activities that may be delayed when there are plenty of time, such jobs that required another person to us, when they could do it, but they are lazy.

... Give priority to jobs that are categorized as primary, such as prayer, worship, health care, repairing dangerous things, pay bills, and perform the duties ...

Means of time management at home:

1. Make a daily chart that simple. When you have an obligation to your family, do not you asking the question, "What the hell do they want from me?" Make the questions in it contains two options. Then make a specific schedule as much as possible to everything. Persingkatlah time that you normally use for things that are not useful; good for the world and the hereafter.
2. Do important jobs on the spot, do not delay-nundanya. It is like a tidy bedroom, tidy toys and books the children. Because, once you put off the things above, then you will need a lot of time later.
3. Komitmenlah with your schedule as much as possible. However, do not force yourself to the extreme, if you can not do your jobs because of things beyond your wishes. However, study the various factors that make you not able to do it.
4. Take the time to entertainment and make permanent plans for a weekly holiday.
5. Make a weekly list for the obligations of everyday life, families need a grocery list, while continuing to monitor their prayers, awaken them, and give an understanding to them regarding the result of sleeping late at night.
6. Write a schedule of things you should do during the week and do not forget to spend some private time to you.
7. If possible, do two jobs at a time, such as clearing the table when talking on the phone, or listen to the recording is important when tidying the house.
8. Take time for family vacations. Then do not forget to specify hours of sleep a night.
9. Shorten the time that you normally use to talk about things that are less important, such as daily discussions with children about the clothes they should wear, the food they would eat, or who must carry out certain domestic tasks. All of this can be stopped by making a simple schedule for the days more organized.

... Komitmenlah with your schedule as much as possible. However, do not force yourself to the extreme ...

Kids and Time Management

Like most other abilities and skills, time management is one important skill to possess the children. When children can read at, then he had a responsibility to time in its path. Thus, we can train them in a way:

... Teach them that every time the age of children increases, then its responsibility with respect to time even higher, especially those associated with the worship ...

1. Hanging his monthly routine schedule in their room and instruct them to write off the day they had passed.
2. Instruct children to get ready to start the day with the shortest possible time.
3. Teach them about time management that can make their lives regularly. You have to teach them how important time management, so they will know that time passes quickly while job-work to do so much.
4. Make a schedule of lessons, good for doing homework (homework) or to learn when exams. Because it isis the important way to organize time in the lives of children .